My Dad was right!

I am sure my Dad is chuffed to be reading this and not just because he is mentioned in the title of this post! When I created this website and blog he was the first one to drop me a line through the contact form. Always one to be very forthcoming with critical and constructive feedback, I braced myself. It read:

"Name
Your Dad

Comment
Very good for starters
As could be expected it's colourful (but surprisingly it's tasteful too!!)
Keep up the good work but remember to keep the "monster" that you have created up to date!" 

As with most things in my life, my Dad was right. He knows me very well and knows that I am very good at starting things but not always brilliant at maintenance. He has vast experience of this from my excellent outfit planning whenever I would "help" in the garden or the garage or when I would accompany him on a fishing trip. Style over substance you might say but I perfected the headscarf  and dungaree look from an early age, which is something I have never regretted.

​And here I am doing it again. When I set this up I planned to blog once a week. Not that I thought anyone would read it but as a way of reflecting on the working week that had been and the one that was about to come. It has now been six weeks and this is the first time I have logged in since then. I hate proving my Dad right.

Without excusing myself too much, one of the main reasons that I haven't put my bum into gear on here is that it has been so busy. Wonderfully so. And with wonderful people and places.

I feel like I have got to know Northumberland much better over that last 6 weeks. Working with Open Clasp on a project in partnership with Northumberland Domestic Abuse Service has been a roadtrip around the glorious landscapes on our doorstep and my co-pilot, the fabulous Jess Johnson, has been the best of travelling companions. We have also had my car (we like to call it The Limo) full of the brilliant young people we have been working with on this project. Touring around schools and community venues in Northumberland, performing First Time Free, a play about Child Sexual Exploitation in rural areas and facilitating a workshop based around these issues, Ben, Gavin and Charlotte have been a credit to young people everywhere. Committed, reliable, caring, brilliant performers who are also a pleasure to be around and have excelled themselves every step of the way.  There is something very powerful about young people raising issues with other young people and taking ownership of the words and the issues. It has been such a privilege to work on this project and to see what good work is being done by NDAS and the West End Women and Girls Centre Domestic Abuse Peer Educators.

We come to the end of the tour on Friday and so it feels timely to reflect on the journey so far. The response has been incredibly positive from the staff and students we have met. The piece is very powerful and goes where it needs to go in a way that is real for the audiences and I think that is one of the many strengths of Catrina McHugh's writing. It very quickly allows the young people to recognise and to care and to talk. Whilst this week sees the end to the tour, hopefully this won't be the end to the conversation started by the young people in the places we have visited.

I feel like I could go on and on about this project but I will aim to stay brief. It has felt good to jot this down and whilst I am not going to promise myself that I will do this weekly I am going to try and keep it up. Thanks for dropping by.
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Once I have posted this, I am going to ring my Dad so that he can say "I told you so." Actually, I don't think he will do that. He will probably send feedback via the contact form instead. 

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